Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Shri Radheshyam Agarwal



An article by Himanshu Murarka, Christ University, HOSD 2014
Shri Radheshyam Agarwal is 75 years old. He was a ‘pediatrician’ by profession before retiring from his long career. He chose this profession not because he was a scholar in medical, but it was his spirit to not let any parents, feel the pain of losing their young kids, as he himself has lost one and still shed tears after 55 years of his death.

 He started his career in a remote village of Iraq. He had just married when he was posted in Iraq. It was a tough living there with a family as the condition of the country then was no different and was constantly under threats or wars. Living there with three women made it even more difficult. He knew that he will soon be in a situation to face exile. He decided to return to India along with his whole family leaving everything behind that he had earned over the period of time.

He then returned to Bangalore, which was a small city then, joined a hospital and began the journey of building up his career again. Time though took almost everything away from him but what it failed to deprive him off was his love for his and ever other kids. Seeing the sufferings of children in Iraq, his dedication towards nursing and treatment of children had increased in multiple folds.

His daughters were never a burden for him and he considered them no less than his son – a very rare scene those days. He always encouraged his daughters to do what they loved doing because nothing mattered more to him than the happiness of his children.  He spent all his earnings to help his daughters get a brighter future and spent all his life on kids around to make their life better.

The definition of success for him was never money, all he strived for was - smile on the face of innocent children around him. He did every bit to help the kids either be it in form of free treatment or small contribution for their education. He believes that success of each of those children is his success.

He is bedridden, he doesn’t practices his profession any more, and he doesn’t cure any more kids, but still does his bit by blessing them all. In his words, “life is only worth living when you live it for others”

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

P. Gangadhar Rao



Article by Srija Sneharika Badireddi , Christ University, HOSD 2014

P. Gangadhar Rao is my grandfather on the maternal side and I did an essay on him as he is one person who inspires me the most due to what he has done in this society. He credits his study, occupation and personality to God and believes that it was God who pushed him towars his profession in motivation and spirit.
Childhood-
Pappala Gangadhar Rao born on 23rd October 1943 but according to legal records July 1st 1944, is a man who hails from a small town in Andhra Pradesh. Born to a large farmers family with 7 siblings out of which him being the eldest and having the responsibility of taking care of his big family. He had been struggling from a very young age, supporting his four sisters and two brothers.

 When he was 6 years old, his Aunt Ratnamma i.e. his mother’s elder sister, adopted him as she lost her only son to death and had gone into depression. From the care of his mother in the village, he moved to a town with his aunt where he got education which he otherwise wouldn’t have received while living in the village as his parents never provided any kind of support to him. He was the first to be educated in his family for generations as well as the first to have graduated in his entire village. Not only the thirst for education but he also showed a lot of enthusiasm for football in those days. He brought awareness of education in and around his village by inspiring and motivating them. He lived along with his aunt’s step children who treated him very harshly and rudely. They used to make him do all the household chores and therefore he never used to get time to study in the day. He used to wake up at midnight and study under the lamppost in the street. By this he did his Graduation and Post-Graduation in MA Sociology in Government Arts College, Rajahmundry, Andhra Pradesh, India and became a Lecturer in the same college. Even though his aunt’s step children were rich, they became dependent on his salary later on in life. Struggling with hardships in life.

His work and achievements-
After his work as a Lecturer in GAC, he worked in VRO, Vocational Rehabilitation Centre for the Physically Handicapped under the International Labour Organization, America which was taken over by the government under the Ministry of Labour.  His role was mainly getting the physically handicapped people trained and providing them with placements with good organizations. He worked as a Central Government Officer and therefore used to transfer every 5 years to other states in India such as Tamil Nadu, Maharashtra, as well as West Bengal. He also went abroad to Europe for studying various projects. One of them being Remploy in UK. Remploy is the UK's leading provider of employment services. Helping to support disabled jobseekers and working with employers and partners. Colombo plans for 6 months visit and study how ILO implementing in those countries and how they take care of the disabled people from the childhood, how they are educated and towards adulthood to help them in acquiring jobs. After this project the VRC was very happy with his work and he was made the Director/Senior Superintendent of VRC for physically handicapped. While he was in service, he was also recommended and received National Awards for Outstanding Social work in the Field of Disability in 1993 by the then president, Shankar Dayal Sharma.


He received an award for Best Placement Officer for the Disabled in 2006 by the then president, Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam. And many other awards such as the Helen Keller Award from the Governor of Andhra Pradesh. All for his outstanding services.


Later on, he retired as the Director of VRC and is working with various NGOs. Non-governmental organizations serving the physically handicapped people. He is running an NGO called Commitments, which is a self-help group of disabled in rural areas located in Mehboob Nagar of Andhra Pradesh district. Commitments acts as model for voluntary NGOs. It is a community based on rehabilitation for rural, poor, disabled people in a way of helping them to make a livelihood for themselves in their own vicinity.
As a person-
When my grandfather’s cousin, Kasi Visweshar Rao was infected with polio, he brought him from the village and took care of him. Kasi later on became a government employee because of my grandfather’s kind gesture. An acquaintance of my grandfather, Subhanna was disabled as well and my grandfather gave him an opportunity of training in his office and he received a job in Defence Research & Development Laboratory(DRDL) Hyderabad and now he is a business man in carpentry, interior designing.
My grandfather is a social worker and thinks about other people. He gives high regard for other people and does not expect anything in return. He is hardworking, with his life completely dedicated to the services of needy people. A very polite person for whom others come before himself and humble in his speech and action. Even though being from a poor family, educated and to have gone abroad on special assignments, he lived a very humble and simple life. Even if anyone harms him in any way he always treats them the same. He has no enemy. According to his son, he compares my grandfather to Gandhiji. A very cool and a calm person who is respected by all.
Being 71 currently, the way my grandfather is hale and healthy is the routine he has been following for several years now.
He sleeps at 10:00 pm every night. Wakes up at 5:00 am and goes for a hour of morning walk in dawn. Once back home, he showers and does puja. Cleansing his soul. Leaves to work at 9:00 approximately.
He is a person who cannot sit idle and needs some kind of activity to take him through the day. Me being 17 sit and laze around all day and my grandfather being 71 is more energetic I’ve known any person to be. He inspires me and I look upto him and wish to take social action just like my grandfather.

Award from the Governor of Andhra Pradesh.

He also has various newspaper articles in his name.

My Loving Grandma



Article by Swetha R, Christ University HOSD 2014
 
My grandmother Dhanalakshmi is from an era where India was struggling for independence, she was born on 4th August 1943. Dhanalakshmi was born in a Hindu Brahmin family. She got married at the age of 14. she was married to Swami Nathan who was 29 years old. Dhanalakshmi was not even aware of what married life would be like. One month into her married life her husband expired, it was a phase of her life where she was confused of what marriage really meant. Dhanalakshmi was a young widow who stayed with her parents. When she was 17 years old she fell in love with man named Raphael. Raphael was born in a Christian family and was 23 years old when he fell in love with Dhanalakshmi. Raphael confessed about his love to Dhanalakshmi's parents as well as to his family. Dhanalakshmi's father completely disagreed to their relationship, as he never wanted Dhanalakshmi to convert and have a good future, rather than conversion he wanted her to stay as a widow. Even though to some extent Dhanalakshmi's father was broad minded. But he was not ready to get his daughter married to a Christian. But her mother wanted to see her daughter to do well in life. At that moment the only thing she cared about was her daughter and could not see her daughter distressed being a widow wearing a white saree throughout her life. No mother would want her daughter to live the life of a widow when she herself was clad in good sarees with jewels. Hence, against all odds she wanted their daughter to lead a happy life and was ready to get her married to Raphael even at the cost of getting her converted. Dhanalakshmi got married to Raphael in the year 1963. Dhanalakshmi is now Mary Raphael.

She embraced the new culture with all the love that she has for her husband. She is a mother of five children Gloria, John, Jascintha, Nathan and Anthony Parimala and she is a grandmother of 15 grandchildren.

Mary Raphael is a woman who is content with her life that she leads at present and never looks back to her past that had once tormented her. She is ever so thankful of her husband for this amazingly beautiful life that she has now come across because for her husband. Her family means the world to her and because of what her life has taught her, she never restricted her children and or grand children to get married to a particular religion. She has always given them freedom to choose their own life partners as she knew that it was the right thing to do.