Written by Ashutosh Deb
Leadership Open Elective taught by Jibrael Jos
Nov 2018 at Christ University
Leadership Open Elective taught by Jibrael Jos
Nov 2018 at Christ University
The amount of Rs 47 was
really close to my paternal grandfather’s heart as it was his first salary. My Dadu
(grandfather), Shree Kanak Ranjan Deb, was born on 12th January,
1929 in Sylhet District, Bangladesh. He had two siblings and was the youngest
amongst the three. His father was a zamindaar back in Sylhet and owned a good
amount of agricultural land. In 1948, when my Dadu was 19 years old his father
suddenly passed away due to a heart attack, this left my Dadu and his family
members in a shock. At this point of time my Dadu had shifted to India and was
working as an apprentice in a Tea garden in Assam.
He came to India in
1946, and worked as an apprentice in a Tea garden in Assam. He worked there for
some years and in 1951 he got recruited as a soldier in the Indian Army in
Agartala. He was then sent to Bangalore for training and was later posted in
Leh-Ladakh. He was a part of some major wars which the Indian Army fought. They
were as follows:-
1962- Sino-Indian War
1965- Indo-Pakistani War
1972- Indo-Pakistani War.
In the meanwhile, he got married to my
grandmother in 1961 and was posted in Deolali, Maharashtra. They had three children,
my two aunts and my dad, my dad being the youngest. They had to move from
places to places as my Dadu had transfers. In 1979 he took a voluntary
retirement as an honorary Captain in the Indian Army, and later joined another
project in Ranchi, Jharkhand, which was an initiative by the Indian govt. to provide employment to the ex-servicemen of
the Indian Army. He worked there till 1991 and then shifted to Siliguri, West
Bengal with his whole family. He got settled there and opened the first Xerox
shop of that locality and continued that business for some time.
He always used to tell me stories about
how his army life was and his first salary being just Rs 47. He left his
smoking habits for his children as he loved them immensely, and he never touched
a cigarette again. He wanted all his children to be highly educated and made
them complete their Masters. He also loved his mother a lot and took care of
her till her last breath. He really enjoyed quarrelling with my grandma. My
grandparents were married for 57 years together. They faced all their hardships
together and always stayed on each other’s side.
My Dadu was someone who
supported me always and gave me his blessings whenever I met him in person or
was on phone. His grandchildren’s achievements were his pride. He passed away
on 13th February, 2019 after being bed ridden in a hospital for some
days. He was 90 years old and his sudden demise left everyone in shock in the
family. I met him for the last time in December,2018 while my winter vacations
were going on and we went for a family picnic at that time. For me it’s still
difficult to believe that I won’t get to meet him again but somewhere in my
mind I know that he’s always got my back and will take pride in whatever I
achieve in my life.
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